I just came for my walk. It's pretty hot outside.
我剛去散步了,外面很熱。
And I feel like I need an iced coffee right now.
我覺得我需要泡一杯冰咖啡喝喝。
But today I wanted to shoot a casual sit-down talk video, about a topic that has been on my mind for a while.
今天,我想和大家隨意地坐着聊一聊,聊一個在我腦海中縈繞已久的一個話題。
And that is how successful people actually think.
成功人士的真實想法。
The key thing I realized is that there is a certain level of mindset you gotta reach before you actually become successful.
我意識到,關鍵的是,在你真正取得成功之前,你的思維方式必須達到某種程度才行。
I'm personal growth for more than six years right now.
我差不多自己一個人摸爬滾打六年多了吧。
And I'm just starting to get the hang of it.
而我才剛剛開始掌握其中的訣竅。
Because there is so much work and you're actually building a brand-new mindset around success, money, all that stuff.
因為有太多的工作要做,實際上,你是要圍繞成功、金錢等所有東西建立一種全新的心態。
So the things I read in books years and years and years ago just started to make more sense in my mind right now.
很多年前我在書中讀到的東西現在才開始在我的腦海中變得更有意義。
So I thought I should open up about this.
所以我覺得,我們可以一起敞開心扉談談這個話題。
Before that, let me get my coffee.
在那之前,等我先去泡個咖啡。
And we're gonna dive into how successful people actually think.
我們將深入了解一下成功人士的真實想法。
All right, let's start with today's casual talk.
好,讓我們開始吧。
We're gonna be gossiping a lot about successful people and how they see things in life the way they live, but especially their mindset.
我們將談論很多關於成功人士的事情,他們如何看待生活中的事情,特別是他們的思維模式。
We are all about mindset today.
今天我們的重點就是思維模式。
Of course, I have my notes over here.
我的筆記在這裡。
So first things first, an absolute self-belief.
首先,要有絕對的自信。
Successful people believe that they can achieve everything in life.
成功的人相信他們可以實現一切。
And right now, I'm not talking about average successful people.
當然,我不是在說一般般的成功人士。
I'm talking about highly successful people, like Elon Musk, Steve Jobs.
我說的是非常成功的人,比如埃隆·馬斯克、史蒂夫·喬布斯。
I mean Bill Gates, Oprah Winfrey, all of these people.
我是說比爾·蓋茨,奧普拉·溫弗瑞,他們這類人。
Knew that their potential is incredibly, incredibly huge.
他們知道自己的潛力是非常非常巨大的。
And if they believe in themselves, they can change the world.
如果他們相信自己,他們就能改變世界。
Average people usually tends to separate things as possible things and impossible things.
普通人通常傾向於將事情區分為可能的事情和不可能的事情。
Possible things, they let themselves want these things.
可能的事情,他們會去爭取。
Because they are realistic, they are safe.
因為這些事情是現實的,是安全的。
And they achieve those things, like having a car, getting married, having that job, getting a promotion.
他們也做到了這些事情,比如擁有一輛車,結婚,得到那份工作,獲得晉升。
Whatever it is, it is possible in their world.
無論是什麼,這在他們的世界裡都是可能的。
But there is a space for them which is impossible.
但他們有一個空間,這是不可能的。
So if you see these things as impossible, you're not going to be able to achieve those things.
因此,如果你認為這些事情是不可能的,你將無法實現這些事情。
Because you don't even try to reach them.
因為你甚至都沒有試着去接近它們。
The case for successful people is completely different.
成功人士則完全不同。
Because there is no separation.
因為他們不會進行分類。
Everything is possible.
對他們來說,一切皆有可能。
So you might think as, some things are possible for me.
所以你可能會想,有些事情對我來說是可能的。
But I don't even have the courage to think about the things that I actually want these are too big too fancy.
但我沒有勇氣去想我真正想要的東西,這些東西太大太不切實際了。
So I don't even think about these things.
我甚至不會去想這些事情。
But successful people, they have the courage to think about those things, to dream about those things.
但是成功的人,他們有勇氣去思考那些事情,並將其設立為一個夢想。
Through hard work, yes, they're gonna achieve one day.
是的,通過努力工作,他們總有一天會取得成功。
It doesn't matter what's gonna happen.
接下來會發生什麼並不重要。
It doesn't matter which obstacles they're gonna face.
他們將面臨哪些障礙並不重要。
They're just gonna hit their goals. There is no plan b.
他們只會達到他們的目標,無所謂B計劃。
I know this is a little bit controversial.
我知道這有點爭議性。
Not everyone might think the same.
不是每個人都是這麼想的。
It sounds risky and sometimes foolish.
這聽起來很冒險,有時甚至很愚蠢。
This might not be applicable to every aspect of your life, like finances for example.
這可能並不適用於你生活的方方面面,比如財務。
But the thing we're talking about here is if you want to succeed at one thing and become really successful,
但我們在這裡談論的事情是,如果你想在一件事上取得成功,並變得真正成功,
in order to be focused and get rid of distractions, you gotta choose just one thing, and one thing only.
你需要集中注意力,擺脫干擾,你只需要選擇一件事,而且只能有一件事。
By the way, I'm not saying that after watching this video, you're gonna be like, oh now, I know everything.
順便說一句,我不是說看完這段視頻後,你會說,哦,現在,我什麼都知道了。
Now, I know why they did this, how they actually became successful, like their deep mindset.
現在,我知道他們為什麼這樣做,他們是如何真正取得成功的,他們的思維模式是怎樣的。
Nope, that takes time and experience, thoughtful process.
不,這需要時間和經驗,需要深思熟慮的過程。
It seems like I will keep this video really short.
看來這段視頻不會很長了。
Because I just realized that my battery is dying and also my storage is not enough.
因為我剛剛看到我的電池快沒電了,而且存儲空間也不夠了。
But I will try to talk about a few other key points and leave you guys after this.
但我還是想要談談其他幾個要點,然後再結束今天的視頻。
They destroy traditions.
他們會打破傳統。
At least they don't care about traditions.
至少他們不在乎傳統。
They just make their own way in their own style.
他們只會按照自己的風格走自己的路。
Just think about it.
你好好想想看。
Have you seen every successful people with an ordinary life story?
你見過哪個成功人士擁有一個平凡的人生故事嗎?
Nope, because they don't fit in at all.
沒有,因為他們不甘於平庸。
And if you want to be successful, keep that in mind, you're not going to fit into.
如果你想成功,記住這一點,你不會甘於平庸的。
Successful people is really conscious about what they want in life and how they're going to achieve it.
成功人士能夠真正意識到,他們在生活中想要什麼,以及他們將如何實現它。
Ordering people at this point might think like, oh it would be nice to have this if I could have that.
在這一點上,有些人可能會想,哦,如果我能擁有這個,那就太好了。
But successful people on the other hand is like, I don't have it now, but I'm gonna have it one day.
但另一方面,成功的人會說,我現在沒有,但總有一天我會擁有的。
They don't waste their time by playing the victim.
他們不會把時間浪費在扮演受害者上。
I see so many people around me playing the victim.
我看到我周圍就有很多人一直在扮演受害者。
I mean complaining about the governments or the economy or the world situation in general.
他們經常抱怨政府、經濟或整個世界的形勢。
As long as you play the victim, you're not gonna get rid of this victim role.
只要你扮演受害者,你就擺脫不了這個受害者角色。
The things you might complain right now may disappear in a few months, in a few years.
你現在可能會抱怨的事情可能在幾個月或幾年後就會消失。
So doing that, you're actually wasting your time.
所以這樣做,你實際上是在浪費時間。
I want to finish up today's video with a quote that I really love.
我想用一句我非常喜歡的話來結束今天的視頻。
And it says, the people who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world are actually the ones who does it.
那些瘋狂到認為自己可以改變世界的人,真的可以改變世界。
I know this video has been all over the place and incredibly short.
我知道這樣的視頻並不新鮮,大多短小精悍。
But please let me know if you want to see more videos about how successful people think and success mindset.
如果你想看更多關於成功人士如何思考和成功的視頻,請告訴我。
Because I'm planning to shoot more videos focused on our mindset.
我會拍攝更多這方面的視頻。
And at the same time, I have to figure out what we're gonna do with our life, how to figure out our way, all that kind of stuff.
與此同時,我還要弄清楚,為了成功,我們需要在生活做些什麼,如何找到我們的路,諸如此類的事情。
So stay tuned for more inspirational content.
因此,請繼續關注,以後還會有更多鼓舞人心的內容。
And thank you so much for watching, I will see you in my next video. Bye bye.
感謝收看,我們下個視頻見。拜拜。
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